Obviously adultery is debt, which is very likely to drag our
family and descendants someday. What does adultery mean is debt? Let us
consider the following hadith of the Prophet:
Abu Umamah recounts, "One day there was a young man who
came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) saying," O
Messenger of Allah, permit me to commit adultery! "
The friends rushed to him and rebuked him, "Silence you,
silence!"
Rasulullah Shalallahu 'alaihi wassallam said, "Come
closer". The young man approached him and sat down in front of him.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) asked,
"Would you please if your mother was abused by others?"
"No, for Allah's sake, Messenger," the boy replied.
"Similarly, other people are not willing if their mother
dizinai".
"Would you please if your daughter is abused?".
"No, for Allah's sake, O Messenger!". "Likewise others are not
willing if their daughters are adulterated".
"Would you please if your real sister is married?"
"No, for Allah's sake, O Messenger!"
"Similarly, others are not willing if their sister is
adulterated". "Would you please if your aunt is being awaited?"
"No, for Allah's sake, O Messenger!"
"Likewise others are not willing if their aunts are
adulterated"
"Would you please if your aunt's aunt's aunt?"
"No, for Allah's sake, O Messenger!"
"Likewise others are not willing if their aunts are
abused."
Then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) put his hand on the boy chest while saying, "O Allah, forgive
his mistake, purify his heart and guard his cock."
After the incident, the young man was never again interested in
committing adultery, "(HR Ahmad).
From the explanation of the Prophet in the hadith above, we can
know that when a man commits adultery with a woman, the same man is adultering
a girl, a younger sister, a future wife, even a mother candidate. Realize that
the woman has a father who is certainly not willing to adulter his daugther,
the woman has a family that would not be pleased to be desecrated.
Imagine what it would feel if someday you had a daughter and
your child was adulterated by a young man playing with him? How does it feel?
Or, imagine if you marry someone you think is good, but it turns out she was an
adulterer like you.
So stop adultery, otherwise know that adultery is debt, which
may require your family or your descendants to pay for it. Na'udzubillah min
dzalik.
In a story, someone comes and asks Imam Shafi'i, "Why is the
penalty for the adulterers so heavy?"
So the face of Imam Shafi also flushed, his cheeks flushed
pomegranate. Then he said, "For adultery is the sin of the reinforcements'
(great risk). The result will be about his family, his neighbors, his
descendants to rats in his home and ants in burrows around his home."
The man again asked, "Why the execution of his punishment
with it? As Allah says, "And let not your mother's taste in them hinder
you to uphold the religion."
So Imam Shafi'i was silent, he looked down and wept. After the
crying stopped, he said, "Because adultery often comes from love and love
always makes a person pity. Then devil comes to make us love man more than to
love Him. "
Then the man asked again, "And why did Allah say," And
let the execution of their punishment (adulterers) be witnessed by a group of
believers? Is it not a punishment for murderers, apostates and thieves, does
Allah not require to make it a spectacle? "
Immediately Syafi'i's wet beard wet, he was shaken. Then he said,
"In order to be a lesson." Said her sobbing.
"To become a lesson," he sobbed.
"In order to be a lesson," he sobbed again.
Then he got up from his seat and his eyes flared again, he again
excited and said, "For you know that indeed adultery is a debt. And really
debt remains debt. One of those in the nasab / offspring of the perpetrator
must have to pay for it. "
Hopefully can be a reminder for us to stay away from adultery.
Thanks
BalasHapus